[advice #1 ]
The pain of losing a loved one can never be expressed in words because words would fail to match up to the pain one goes through after the loss. Though we all know that death is the ultimate truth of our life but still the love for a dear one makes us forget this reality and we keep on bearing the unbearable pain.
As a famous proverb goes, “Perhaps they are not stars, but rather openings in heaven where the love of our lost ones pours through and shines down upon us to let us know they are happy.” So if you don’t want to make them unhappy then try not to keep on bearing the pain of the loss and just let them feel contented after noticing that you suffer no more from the unbearable pain of losing a loved one. Try to be happy and make your loved ones happiest. Though it is easy to say than get it done but we have to understand that if we keep on bearing this pain then we would be doing no-good to our health.There are many people who don’t give vent to their emotions and this makes their condition more serious. The best way to give vent to your inner feelings is through your tears. Weep for the last time and with those tears pledge that you would no more make your loved one sad by crying again. When you are done with all weeping and crying then remember all the loving moments you enjoyed with your loved one. Cherish these memories and instead of getting tears on your face get a big smile.Just remember that the person you love never goes away from your heart, he/she resides forever in some deep corner of your heart. When you could not get over the pain of losing a loved one then your heart suffers the most. If the heart is not well, imagine what would happen to the person residing in your heart! You have to get over the pain even if you don’t want to because you have no right to hurt people who love you. The sooner you understand this fact, the better it is.We hope the above article helped you some way in getting over the pain of losing a loved one. It is better to share your grief with someone and for that we are always at your service. [ your friendss are always here forr youu ]
[advice #2]
Best thing to do is get out of the house for a while, go see a movie or talk to a friend. Let yourself digest this change without consciously thinking about it. When you get back, maybe write about what you feel, what you will miss, all the good times you had. Just let yourself grieve. These things happen to everyone eventually; try to focus on the great life you provided for Furby, and how lucky you were to have had each other. Not all cats get people in their lives who love them so well.It will get better, I promise. Here's an *hug*
Some notess and quotes:
~The more you love someone, the greater the pain of losing them to death. The pain is deeper and more lasting when a loved one's death is very tragic, sudden and seemingly senseless.~
~true friendship isn't about being there when it's convenient; it's about being there when it's not.~
~Sometimes you put walls up not to keep people out, but to see who cares enough to break them down.~
~The friend who can be silent with us in a moment of despair or confusion, who can stay with us in an hour of grief, who can tolerate not knowing... not healing, not curing...that is a friend who cares.~
~A friend is a hand that is always holding yours, no matter how close or far apart you may be. A friend is someone who is always there and will alwayys care. A friend is a feeling of forever in the heart.~JESS, I am here and I care and I am sending you a huge hug and not letting go. <33 bitss="DD"><'' AND THE COLOUR I WANTT =( grrrrr